frustrated!

How frustrating can it get?? I’m supposed to wear this black ensemble for my brother’s wedding dinner which in my mum’s opinion seems inappropriate because it’s supposed to be a happy occasion. And I told her I found this scarf which is off-white in colour and she disagreed because black and white equals mourning! She said it’s good enough that she let’s me wear all black to the dinner and she wants me to wear a RED scarf! Hello??!!! That is like so not my colour! I HATE red! I repeat, I hate red!! Black and red! Ugh! If I were to wear that red scarf to the dinner, I will not wear it out again and that would be a waste. Why not buy a colour that I approve and will wear out on other occasions?? No….. She said she doesn’t want blue or any other colour I pick. In other words she’s forcing me to wear a colour that I DON’T like but she likes! I’m wearing the whole thing, not her. It’s enough that she’s wearing red and now I have to jump into the bandwagon as well?? I am so pissed! Whatever!~ psshhht!